Mutual respect is essential to a succesful tantric partnership. Open yourself to the principles of Tantra – the union of Shiva and Shakti, the Hindu terms for male and female aspects of the divine.
Let go of any sense of inequality in your relationship. A Tantric relationship is a meeting of equals, a coming together of male and female forces, and harnessing them to create a powerful force for pleasure.
Give and Receive
Remember that Tantric sex is not about one partner doing something to the other. It is about honouring one another, about giving and receiving, about simply being and seeing where the being takes you.
To maintain balance in your relationship, take turns organising your Tantra session and deciding which exercises you would like to do.